From: alexhormozi
The transition from an “underdog” status to a position of leadership and success often brings unforeseen social challenges, even when met with initial support [00:00:54]. This shift can be a significant aspect of the challenges of becoming successful [00:00:46].
Shifting Perceptions of Success
Initially, individuals striving for success often receive encouragement. For instance, a business guru who slept in his gym while personal training was supported by his trainees, who expressed hopes for his business to “take off” [00:00:00].
However, once success is achieved—such as the guru owning the gym and managing operations—the perception of those who once offered support can change dramatically [00:00:13]. The supportive attitude transforms into a questioning one, challenging the newfound authority and work ethic of the successful individual [00:00:20]. This phenomenon highlights a common hurdle in overcoming societal and personal challenges to achieve success.
Personal Reflections on the Transition
A similar pattern was observed when an individual, like Sam (presumably Sam Sulek), experienced rapid, almost overnight success, becoming a professional bodybuilder and achieving YouTube prominence [00:00:32]. Those who previously wished him well eventually reacted differently once he achieved his goals [00:00:37].
This experience was so difficult that it prompted the speaker to write an essay titled “Everyone believes in the American dream until it comes true” [00:00:46]. The core question explored was: “At what point do you go from being the underdog to the man?” [00:00:54].
The essay identified a crucial observation:
“Every wants you to do well as long as it’s not better than you” [00:00:58].