From: alexhormozi
The concept of the American Dream often implies that individuals are encouraged to strive for success and prosperity through hard work. However, the reality of this dream can be complicated by societal reactions once that success is achieved [00:00:51].
The Underdog vs. The Achiever
There appears to be a shift in how people view someone’s progress from being an “underdog” to becoming “the man” [00:00:55]. This transition can be challenging, as the support and encouragement an individual receives during their struggle may turn into resentment or criticism once they begin to thrive [00:00:46].
Examples of Shifting Perceptions
- The Personal Trainer: One business guru shared his experience as a personal trainer who slept in the gym while building his business [00:00:00]. His trainees initially expressed support and hope for his success [00:00:08]. However, once he owned the gym and began making significant progress, their attitude shifted to skepticism and questioning of his work ethic [00:00:13].
- Sam’s Overnight Success: Similarly, a public figure named Sam experienced a rapid rise to prominence, almost overnight [00:00:32]. While people in his circle may have initially wished him well on his journey to become a professional bodybuilder or YouTube personality, their reactions changed once he started achieving those goals and more [00:00:35].
The Core Realization
This phenomenon was so impactful that it led to an essay titled “Everyone believes in the American dream until it comes true” [00:00:47]. The central idea identified was:
[00:00:58] Everyone wants you to do well as long as it’s not better than you.